Frequently Asked Questions

While palliative and hospice care focus on medical and physical needs, my role as a Death Doula is non-medical. I'm here to offer emotional, spiritual and practical support. To sit with you in conversation, help you explore your wishes and create a sense of peace and dignity in your final chapters. I work alongside medical teams, filling the gaps they may not have time to tend to, so you and your loved ones feel deeply held and supported. 

No. I support people at all stages of a life-limiting illness or diagnosis from the moment you begin thinking about what matters most, to the final hours and even through the grief that follows. My role is to walk alongside you for as long as you need, whether that is months, weeks or days. 

Yes. I see myself as part of the broader circle of care. I can liaise with your doctors, palliative care or hospice staff, or other professionals, making sure your voice is heard and your needs are understood. My support compliments their work, never replaces it.

Yes. While many people prefer in-person visits, I also offer online sessions via video or phone for those who live further away, are too unwell for visits, or feel more comfortable connecting from home. The heart of my support is listening, guiding and holding space, and this can be felt in both online and in-person meetings. 

Yes. I can offer after-hours support via online or phone. This means we can connect for guidance, reassurance, or a check-in when needed, even outside regular hours, without the need for an in-person visit. 

Absolutely. I meet you exactly where you are, whether your beliefs are religious, spiritual, secular, or still unfolding. I welcome and support people of all backgrounds, including all races, cultures, sexes, genders and LGBTQIA+ identities. My role is to honour your values, your story and the things that bring you comfort and meaning. 

Yes. I can visit you in a hospital, hospice, palliative care, or aged care setting if permitted by the facility. My role remains the same, to be a compassionate presence, an advocate for your wishes and a steady source of comfort for you and your loved ones. 

Yes. Grief doesn't end with a funeral, and it's different for everyone. I offer ongoing support (if required) for individuals and families as they navigate life after loss. This can include listening, helping make meaning from your experience, and offering gentle practices for self-care and emotional healing. 

Yes. Some days you might want to talk, reflect, or process your emotions. Other days, you might need help making phone calls, organising documents or arranging meaningful moments with loved ones. My support is flexible, shaped by what matters most to you on any given day.